{"id":45767,"date":"2025-09-18T09:11:17","date_gmt":"2025-09-18T14:11:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/?p=45767"},"modified":"2025-09-30T10:38:56","modified_gmt":"2025-09-30T15:38:56","slug":"the-mother-and-child-program-gave-me-renewed-confidence-and-stability","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/the-mother-and-child-program-gave-me-renewed-confidence-and-stability\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe Mother and Child Program gave me renewed confidence and stability\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<p class=\"lead\">Living in a <a href=\"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/services\/supervised-apartments-2\/\">supervised apartment <\/a>\u00a0at HCP1 (Habitations Communautaires Portage) was above all an important part of proving to youth protection authorities that I could be trusted with full custody of my two children. Had I not been approved for a supervised apartment, I would likely not have earned the same level of trust and not been given full custody.<\/p>\r\n<p>The mothers at HCP1 have all been through similar life experiences and completed their therapy program. Moreover, we share a common goal: to stay sober and surround ourselves with community rather than living in isolation. We&#8217;re all part of a large family so that, in a way, we are continuing our therapy program, using the tools acquired during our stay at Portage.<\/p>\r\n<p>We maintain a clean and healthy living environment, and because rent is low, we can start paying back our debts and living without fear of not being able to feed our children. What I like most about living here is that our children can feel at home wherever they go in the building and when one of us feels overwhelmed, there&#8217;s always someone to give us a bit of a break. The bond between mothers is very strong. Most of us are single parents and we understand each other. We&#8217;ve seen each other cry because we&#8217;re so tired or laugh when our children throw a temper tantrum. We get together for meals, go to the museum or park, and so much more.<\/p>\r\n<p>What&#8217;s great is we don&#8217;t have to worry about who&#8217;s going to babysit our children on Wednesday evenings because we have fantastic babysitters to take care of them in our beautiful, customized community room. And let&#8217;s not forget the counsellors! They take care of us, prepare our care plans and do regular follow-ups, but most of all, they see us as members of a family. We also have support groups with a sexologist and meetings with an accountant. We are given everything we need so that we can leave HCP1 without feeling stressed and knowing that we&#8217;ve made friends with whom we can build trusting relationships.<\/p>\r\n<p>I feel so safe here that I would gladly stay for the rest of my life. I&#8217;ve lived in my supervised apartment with my two sons for a year now and we&#8217;re starting to look for a new nest for our little family because there&#8217;s a constant turnover as other mothers in need arrive. We can count on help and encouragement as we look for a new place to live, as long as we continue to pursue and meet our objectives.<\/p>\r\n<p>I&#8217;m so grateful to be here with my children, in such a supportive community, having made lasting friendships and met nearly all my objectives before I leave. As the oldest resident at HCP1, I can continue to be a role model for those who are just settling in and give them hope. Most of all, I can show them that the Portage therapy program really does work!<\/p>\r\n<p>Thank you, Portage. We love you.<br \/><strong>Th\u00e9o, Alexis et Janie<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Testimonial by Janie, Social Reintegration Program, <a href=\"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/quebec\/mother-child-program\/\">Portage Mother and Child <\/a>\u00a0and HCP1 resident<\/p>\r\n<p>Share the article:<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/?p=45767&amp;fl_builder&amp;title=%E2%80%9CThe+Mother+and+Child+Program+gave+me+renewed+confidence+and+stability%E2%80%9D\"> Share on Facebook <\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?mini=true&amp;url=https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/?p=45767&amp;fl_builder&amp;title=%E2%80%9CThe+Mother+and+Child+Program+gave+me+renewed+confidence+and+stability%E2%80%9D\"> Share on Linkedin <\/a><\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Living in a supervised apartment \u00a0at HCP1 (Habitations Communautaires Portage) was above all an important part of proving to youth protection authorities that I could be trusted with full custody of my two children. Had I not been approved for a supervised apartment, I would likely not have earned the same level of trust and&#8230;  <a href=\"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/the-mother-and-child-program-gave-me-renewed-confidence-and-stability\/\" class=\"more-link\" title=\"Read \u201cThe Mother and Child Program gave me renewed confidence and stability\u201d\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":45768,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[364],"tags":[370],"class_list":["post-45767","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-testimonial","tag-mother-and-child"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45767"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45767\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":45894,"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45767\/revisions\/45894"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/portage.ca\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}